Parents and carers

As a parent or carer it can be really worrying to see a child or young person going through a difficult time, but it’s important to address your concerns and help them to get help as soon as possible.

Growing up can present many pressures – exam stress, bereavement, bullying, body image, first relationships – and in some cases, young people just need someone to chat things through with and discuss their worries.

Having this conversation, no matter how small the problem might be, is essential to ensuring that young people grow up equipped to manage and understand their own mental health.

However it’s also important to recognise when professional help is needed.  Making an appointment with your GP is a good place to start.  We've got some useful guidance on attending that first appointment.

The following resources are designed to help you start your conversation and know where to turn if help is needed. If you would like to see information on mental health that speaks directly to your child or young person, please see our children and young people's page.

‘Five ways to better wellbeing for families’

Ideas and inspiration on how to make better mental health part of your families conversation.

Self-harm information for parents and carers

Finding out that the young person in your life is self-harming as a coping strategy can be alarming and hard to understand, so this short guide aims to tell you a little bit about what self-harm is, and how you can help.

Supporting my child’s mental health

Advice on how to support your child through life’s challenges and how to respond when you are worried that they are experiencing poor mental health.

National organisations that offer support

NSPCC Helpline

Provides 24/7 help and support from trained helpline counsellors to thousands of parents, professionals and families.

Available: 24/7

Phone: 0808 800 5000

Email: help@nspcc.org.uk

Visit: http://www.nspcc.org.uk

Place2Be

Providing emotional and therapeutic services in primary and secondary schools, building children’s resilience through talking, creative work and play.

Email: Scotland@place2be.org.uk

Visit: http://www.place2be.org.uk

NHS 24

NHS24 is a 24-hour health service for Scotland.

Phone: 111

Visit: www.nhs24.scot

Breathing Space

A confidential out of office hours telephone line for people over 16 experiencing low mood, anxiety or depression.

Phone: 0800 83 85 87

Visit: breathingspace.scot

Samaritans

24-hour helpline offering emotional support for anyone feeling down, distressed or struggling to cope.

Phone: 116 123

Email: jo@samaritans.org

Visit: www.samaritans.org

MindEd

Online advice and support for parents of children who may be experiencing poor mental health.

Visit: http://www.minded.org.uk/families

YoungMinds

Information and resources for young people and parents on mental health.

Available: Mon to Fri 9:30am - 4pm

Phone: 0808 802 5544

Visit: http://www.youngminds.org.uk

ParentLine Scotland

Free helpline, email and web-chat service, for anyone caring for or concerned about a child – open until 9pm Monday to Friday.

Phone: 0800 282233

Email: parentlinescotland@children1st.org.uk

Visit: http://www.children1st.org.uk/plschat

Supporting my child’s mental health

Advice on how to support your child through life’s challenges and how to respond when you are worried that they are experiencing poor mental health.